The Importance Of Having “The talk”

One of the most avoided conversations between mother and daughter is that about sex. Having been conditioned by both society our families and schools, sex has for many a year been seen as taboo to even talk about. This is one of the most fundamental teachings a mother ought to share with her daughter and […]

Female Orgasm

The Psychology of The Female Orgasm

Regardless of the extensive writings about the orgasm, there still exists no universal definition for this word. The most fitting definition of an orgasm is: The peak sensation of intense pleasure. Creating an altered state of consciousness accompanied by involuntary rhythmic contractions of the pelvis and vagina and the emission of fluids from sex glands. […]

Amber’s Rose

I think it’s high time we rid ourselves of the idea that there is a right and wrong way of celebrating one’s body. A person can bellow from the highest mountain how much they love their body. They can walk around with self-love written on their foreheads. They can even wear whatever it is they […]

The Dark Side of Weight Loss

I’m fat and unattractive. I’m grotesque and hideous. These are the messages I told myself day in and day out. The words filled my mind and manifested in the sad reality that was my life.   Being fat has always been a problem for me. Although I might not have been fat all my life, […]

Lost Some Weight | Am I Still Body Positive?

Losing Weight | Does this make me less body positive? Being body positive is all the buzz in this day and age. More people are beginning to embrace their bodies. Accepting what they look like with no reservations. With the rise in the visibility of plus size individual, “fat shamers” creep out of the woodwork […]

Are You A Fetish Because Of Your Size?

What is a fetish? A fetish is a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc. “Victorian men developed fetishes focusing on feet, shoes, and boots” A few days ago we touched on the topic of Closet Curve […]

People Will Always Find Something To Tease You About

After being called “2 slice”, “ skeleton” and “scarecrow “ most of my life and now recently being called FAT by loved ones and strangers alike, I realised that people will always find something to tease you about, whether it is your weight, your head, how you say things – Anything really! Most of the […]